So She Hasn't Called Yet

So she hasn't called yet? She probably won't. And you don't understand why, because you all the time keep your word, you all the time make every phone call when you say you will, and you are so dependable it's roughly embarrassing. Ok, so maybe that last bit isn't all the time 100% you, however good your intentions are. But, she still hasn't called, and it's not because she's unreliable, hates flirting (no chance!), or is a couch potato. Most likely it's because she "knows" the rules of the game, and you don't.

Game? Oh yes. Maybe she indubitably is sitting by the phone, waiting for it to ring, even turning down the possibility of other dates. But, the rules say that the man is the hunter, so he calls first. Even if you exchanged phone numbers, she gave you hers for a reason - she's interested in you.

Games

Maybe it seems strange to you that she doesn't call, "just to say hi!", to pretend that she needs an write back to a examine that's been bothering her and she's sure you know the answer, or to pretend that she dialled your number by mistake before beginning some polite flirting. That would be fine by you, so why doesn't she do it?

Equally maybe, she's waiting for romance, love and a association with you, but instead she spends her evenings watching one soap opera after an additional one - because you haven't called. Meanwhile, you're hesitating to call because you're afraid she'll turn you down, then you'll feel terrible, and both of you are putting on the chocolate-based pounds.

Stupid, isn't it? So phone her. Not "just to say "hi!", not because you need some help with a problem, not to pretend etc, etc. Just phone her with a specific, creative reason for you to get together, at a definite time, on a definite day. If there's a question with the time, either you can make an alternative suggestion or she'll make a suggestion of her own - the rules of the game say she is allowed to do that.

So She Hasn't Called Yet